I do not remember which birthdate I put in Neopets so it looks like I will not be able to get my Twinkling909 account back :(
I have tried 3 times now in the last 3 hours and all to no avail.
I will keep trying but I don't have a lot of hope since I just made something up and never thought I would actually have to use that again to log in. But it asks me for it now.
Oh well, there is always LJ to keep in touch :)